I don't think it really matters whether people tell each other things or not. It really matters more on the relationship more than anything at all. I wish that I could become better at things so then that I can become as good as others. I love the way that others succeed at so many things. I want to get better at drawing, writing, playing piano, and find that satiation that I've always been dying for in life. And then I'll live the way that I've wanted for a while. I don't care, I just want it that way. More than anything at all. It's just the way things go for me and I don't understand why. Understanding, love, sadistic. Submissive means to follow what others tell you to do. Then what is the opposite of this conclusion?